A Dad’s Double Life

Hello readers! Today I’m turning over the pages of WM to a dad who was inspired by his kids, found a hole in the kinds of books he was reading to his kids, and turned that into a real book. It’s an inspiring story for anyone who has an idea and sometimes, it’s fun and important to highlight the Dads here on WM. Also, it serves a reminder that Dads are also chasing different dreams, balancing work with life and figuring out what to give up along the way. With that, I give you Matt Damman (I know, I know, so close but not quite Matt Damon).

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For over two years, I lived a double life. No, not one of those exciting, ‘edge of your seat’ dual lives full of dark secrets, seduction and thrilling suspense.

Mine was a little different.

By day, I was in a suit sitting on a trading desk buying and selling stocks and bonds for a Wall Street investment house. But, by night, while my colleagues were pouring over market data, pouring a drink or just watching TV, I was in sweats on the couch with a MacBook covered in my kid’s storybooks. I was trying to launch a new brand for children.

Yea, not so “thrilling”…but I tell myself it was much safer.

You see, I didn’t set out to write a children’s book. Not from the start, anyway. It happened and it’s been an incredible journey, but before I tell you about that, let me back up and introduce what this is all about.

CoverWired Momma readers, I’m pleased for you to meet my friends, The Small Sports™ (Find them on FB here: www.facebook.com/thesmallsports).

I created The Small Sports while sitting on our family room floor. No team of “creatives” running around, no paid focus groups, or marketing departments here. Just a dad with an idea.

The idea for the concept hit me after reading dozens of books with my two young children (then ages 3 and 1), and watching hours of Sprout, Nick Jr., and Disney Jr. Like many parents, years of education in literature, history, and math have been replaced in my head with Little Einstein episodes, every line to Monster’s Inc. and the tune to the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse’s Hot Dog Dance. Hot dog, hot dog…. (Sorry)

But, I was cool with that… I just found myself asking a simple question.

Where were the sports themed characters?

I mean, there were talking trains, tons of princesses, and a bald French-Canadian kid with parents who wore sweatshirts day and night- but where were the baseball, soccer and football players?

This got me thinking. There is so much that kids can learn sports  – values like teamwork, good sportsmanship and how to win and lose.

Sportsmanship is missing too often in sports both for the children and parents. So what could I do about it?

The author, Matt, with his wife.

The author, Matt, with illustrator, Patty Eisenbraun.

Well, it was staring me in the face – create a children’s brand around that message! And, I wanted it to be different. I wanted wholesome characters, not the freaky huge head ones, or the over-sexed sassy dolls you see in the store with skirts that could be mistaken for a belt. I wanted a simple message that kids and parents could relate to. My excitement was building… There were only a few small issues.

I had to work all day! Ugh. I also refused to give up time with my wonderful wife and children (I had given up on hitting the gym at this point, though). Oh, and I also had no idea how to actually launch a children’s brand. Minor details, right?

Eventually I partnered up with a wonderful long-time family friend who is our very talented illustrator.  She helped bring life to The Small Sports idea and after over 20 drafts of the book, countless hours pulling out what little hair I have left, we felt like we were onto something.

Our first book The Small Sports Take the Field is based around a rough and tumble little boy, Jake, and his dream of having the perfect place to play. He is determined to clean up an old field by his house, but he can’t do it alone. That’s when his new friends come in. Together, they help make his big dream come true. It’s a real tale of teamwork and friendship.

So, after over two years of writing, editing and directing the artwork – I also had to figure out how to self-publish a book, find a printer and build our website. I had no idea how to do any of those things when we started. But, we got it done. Somehow.

When the books finally arrived, opening it for the first time was truly amazing.  But, that didn’t compare to the feeling of seeing my two kids

Matt's adorable kids with his books!

Matt’s adorable kids with his books!

reading the book. My daughter even did the voiceover in our trailer on YouTube (check it out!).

We’re growing the series and have a second and third book in the works. We are also seeking a publisher and potential animation partner.

Our goal is to introduce The Small Sports to children ages 3 – 8 years old. Teach kids about teamwork, good sportsmanship and encourage just having fun with sports.

With a little luck, maybe their parents will learn something too…

So, will The Small Sports turn into the sports version of The Little Einsteins? I’m not sure. But I can say, one really busy Dad with an idea can get something done. Just don’t ask me if I’ve seen the latest episode of Breaking Bad.

You can find out book easily on Amazon

Thanks and Be A Good Sport!

Matthew Damman is an author, entrepreneur and co-creator of The Small Sports™. He worked for three Fortune 500 companies before hanging up his suit and tie in 2012 to co-found MAP Creative LLC. Oh, and he also now runs a consumer electronics company, Fonegear LLC. Matt graduated from The University of Michigan in 1998. He lives in Michigan with his wife Shauna and their two children, Claire and Jake.

 

 

Parenting in Pictures: Part Three

It seems I’m not the only one who loves the snarky some-ecards given how everyone responds to them on the totally fabulous and always hilarious Wired Momma Facebook page. (it’s criminal if you haven’t liked that page plus I am getting so close to 600 likes so help a sister out)…so today I bring you an old blog post that should still make you laugh….A Week’s Perspective in Pictures.

If you can’t relate to this one, I don’t like you or your kid:

For good reason, one of the most shared images I’ve ever posted on Facebook

 

Glitter is my enemy and naturally my children’s favorite art accessory:

Too True

 

This one totally cracks me up….please never photograph me dancing or worse…video it:

Hilarious

This is especially true after happy hour:

 

And finally….

When can the children feed themselves….and properly?

Have a great weekend friends……join moi here if you haven’t already to keep up with the fun when I don’t post……more next week.

Theater Review: Rumpelstiltskin at Imagination Stage

“In the place where day meets night,” is the setting for Imagination Stage’s newest production, Rumpelstiltskin. I was immediately interested upon hearing the narrator’s words because is there a better time of day, than dusk?

And so the audience travels to this magical place where day meets night, where fairies live alongside humans and where a Brothers Grimm fable inspires us to talk with our kids about promises, beauty, power and names. Is your head swirling?

Wrapped up tightly in this 90-plus minute show is a slew of life lessons, some embroiled with riddles and poetry, to entertain and provoke audience members. If you head to the show with your kids, have them plan to keep track of how many promises are made during the show…and how many are broken. We had fun with that exercise after the show concluded.

Rumpelstiltskin (Matthew Pauli) demands a very high price from the Miller’s Daughter (Katherine Turner) before he can spin the rest of the straw into gold in RUMPELSTILTSKIN at Imagination Stage

Rumpelstiltskin (Matthew Pauli) demands a very high price from the
Miller’s Daughter (Katherine Turner) before he can spin the rest of the straw
into gold in RUMPELSTILTSKIN at Imagination Stage. Photo Credit: Margot Schulman

We absolutely adored this newest production from Imagination Stage, with one exception. Billed as best suited for those ages 5 and up, I would disagree, at least with my 5-year-old. She was definitely too young for it and she is a pretty mature audience member because she’s been going to the theater since she was around 2-years-old. My 8-year-old, a totally different story, she was as enraptured as me and Mr. Wired Momma (In the end, my oldest gave it a hearty two-thumbs up.)

But I totally disagree with Imagination Stage on the age recommendations and honestly wouldn’t suggest it for anyone younger than first grade.  Do not get me wrong, it’s a delightful show, the lessons are plentiful and the riddles playful, but in the absence of any large animal puppets, limited physical comedy,  spunky songs and potty humor  – all of which are ingredients guaranteed to delight the youngest theater-goers among us – I think it’s not suited for the youngest kids. If I were to go again, and honestly I would love too, I’d only bring my oldest.

Once the Miller's Daughter (Katherine Turner) guesses the correct name of the riddling fairy, Rumpelstiltskin (Matthew Pauli) must be banished in RUMPELSTILTSKIN at Imagination Stage. Photo Credit: Margot Schulman

Once the Miller’s Daughter (Katherine Turner) guesses the correct name of
the riddling fairy, Rumpelstiltskin (Matthew Pauli) must be banished in
RUMPELSTILTSKIN at Imagination Stage. Photo Credit: Margot Schulman

The small cast is brilliant in each of their roles. Mr. WM especially loved the pranks and riddles of Rumpelstiltskin. I agreed that he was fantastic in this role. I appreciated the Miller’s daughter, how her father wanted  for her to have a life of beauty and to want for nothing, and though she was raised to do absolutely nothing for herself, in the end she found her strength for her baby and she found her voice to make the king realize how manipulative and controlling he had been. Honestly, at one point, I was a little concerned that we were watching this woman marry the very man who imprisoned her.  Ultimately, she puts him in his place.

As with any story by the Brothers Grimm, it’s definitely a little dark and twisty, but the life lessons ought to inspire some lively discussions with your kids. I also applaud Imagination Stage for cutting out the intermission – making it much easier especially if you do bring younger kids.  I definitely recommend this one, especially as we struggle through this dark cold winter. The show is playing only until March 16 and ticket prices start at $10.

Disclosure: Me and my family were guests of Imagination Stage but my opinions here are all my own.

 

Disney On Ice: 100 Years of Magic Review

Last night, as the threat of #Snochi loomed heavily over DC, me and the girls loaded into the car for our annual trip to the Verizon Center for the Disney on Ice performance.

Color Logo_D20Why did they schedule it on a snow night?”  my five-year-old asked indignantly.

“Yes, terrible planning on their part,” retorted my eight-year-old.

Far be it from me to point out the complexities of long-term planning for large-scale events, I reasoned. I settled on letting the poor planning of Feld Entertainment take the blame in the minds of my kids.

DisneyOnIceI worried for part of the afternoon about even venturing out for the evening – the vague storm start time of 7-10pm really wasn’t helpful. What if we stayed back and the snow didn’t start until 10pm, if at all? This is DC, of course. Being skeptical that it would amount to anything more than just rain – always reasonable.

Then again, this is DC. Shit can go south quickly.

#Commute-A-Geddon – who will ever forget that one? #NotMe

But when Disney on Ice is promised to two young kids – anxiety over inclement weather that hasn’t happened yet – ain’t gonna fly.

Aside from trashing the poor planning on scheduling the event on the evening of a snow storm, all that mattered to my kids on our way to the show, specifically for the one who was decked out in the Anna dress for the show, was this – would Frozen be incorporated into the show?

Spoiler alert – no. But here’s hoping it’s included next year.

Also, I let them have the false hope that it could be.

#SorryFeldEntertainment Again – with the mis-directed blame on their planning.

#StillGoodWithIt

After genuinely having a great time at the media party before the opening night show, we headed down to our seats (while I obsessively tracked the storm updates from Capital Weather Gang. )

My friend noted that she and her kids have been having such a great time watching the Winter Olympics, so she appreciated the timing of the Disney on Ice show because the ice skating talent and difficulty was even more relevant and interesting to her daughter than it normally would be. A great point, I thought, as we’ve spent quite a bit of time specifically focusing on the ice skaters at the Olympics.

At last the show opened with a rink filled with dancing blue genies from Aladin, after being welcomed by Mickey and Minnie Mouse. I’m always a sucker when there’s a large group performance, a rink overflowing with dancing characters like blue genies,  over just the single prince and princess dance – so I was hooked from the start with the multiple genies. Next the show moved into Nemo and my youngest practically jumped out of her skin when one of her top three most favorite Disney characters – the somewhat obscure and little known but totally awesome shark – Bruce – from Finding Nemo made his way onto the ice. At that point, her day was complete.

#Seriously

There would be no Let It Go, no Frozen – but she had Bruce. All was right in the world.

Next the show moved into a scene from Beauty & The Beast and then a long, romantic montage of most of the princesses and their princes. It was a perfectly themed Valentines/lovebirds element for the show this weekend. Honestly, having all the princesses on the ice at the same time felt a bit like a finale number but it seemed too soon for the intermission, and sure enough, it wasn’t. Next we moved into Toy Story, led by the green soldiers. Everyone’s heart always feels warm and fuzzy when Woody sings “You’ve Got a Friend in Me.”Right?

In fact, we were having such a great time, for the first time in a few days, I’d actually completely forgotten about the threat of now-aptly named #Snochi. And then, then, came the finale before intermission.

Be still my heart. It was “It’s A Small World” concluded with the electric light parade. If Bruce the shark completes my youngest, It’s A Small World completes me.  Seriously. Swoon. Love. Can’t get enough of it.

After the set was over, the lights came on, and reality set in. What was the status of the storm? Unfortunately, it was clear the snow had not only started but was really sticking to the roads – so I had to make the tough choice to head home. Trust me. I was berated mercilessly for a while by my girls, especially my oldest who was skeptical of my executive decision, and I also didn’t want to leave. We absolutely love the Disney on Ice show at Verizon Center every February, it’s a true highlight for us, but well, getting home is also important.

My point – I can’t tell you about the second half of the show. What I can tell you is the first half is a ton of fun for boys and girls alike. Pretty much all of us have a five-day weekend – so why not head to Verizon Center for a fun family outing? There are still seven performances left. Here’s the details for the remaining performances this weekend:

Show Times:
·       Friday, Feb. 14 at 7:30 p.m.
·       Saturday, Feb. 15 at 10:30 a.m., 2:30 p.m. and 6:30 p.m.
·       Sunday, Feb. 16 at 12:30 p.m. and 4:30 p.m.
·       Monday, Feb. 17 (President’s Day) at 12:30 p.m.

Ticket information: Tickets are $80 (Front Row)/ $55 (VIP)/ $30/ $20 (plus applicable service charges) and are available through all Ticketmaster outlets including the Verizon Center box office, online at www.ticketmaster.com

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!

Disclosure: I was invited by Feld Entertainment to bring my family to see Disney on Ice. All my opinions here are my own.